This post is not related to personal finance in any way, but more of rant. Feel free to ignore my ramblings if that is what you’re after.
A few weeks ago, I was at my sister’s convocation, when something terrible happened.
I playing photographer for my sister and her friends, when one of her friends exclaimed, “Frugirl Sis, your mom looks like she could be your sister!”
Me, “That’s because I am her sister.”
…. (awkward moment)… Sister’s friend, “Well, I really thought you looked like her sister…”
Now, my mom is wonderful and beautiful woman, but she has had 3 kids who are all in their mid to late twenties. I couldn’t help but feel offended that my sister’s friend thought that I looked like someone who has a 24 year old kid.
Lesson: If there is ever a doubt, err on the side of caution.
Fast forward to last weekend, I was having brunch with my girlfriend, J. The waitress comes to take our order and takes J’s order first, then she turns to me and says, “And for mom?”
Gah! Again, J’s mom is a wonderful and beautiful woman, but my friend is my age – 28 (though she does look young for her age), but still! Her mom?!! I was fuming the entire day!
Am I being too sensitive in both instances? I really don’t think I look that old (don’t we all?)… Hmmph.
Readers, have you been mistaken for age to the point of it being offensive to you? Do you have any tips for dealing with the situation? Unfortunately, I don’t think I handled either situations with much grace.